Mixed Signals/Playing Hard to get is a total turnoff. by Jare
As is often mentioned much of dating or attempts at dating turns into one side or the other attempting to figure out their intentions. Guys who know what they want are not desperate, not going settle for much less then sought out for, especially if they've been successful with certain girls in the past; therefore if you play hard to get like has been done to me all to often usually we will just move on. I am not referring to the girl "putting out", just dating in general. Anotherwards you like a guy a lot, but want to make him chase you a bit. He might be willing to briefly; however after a while he will become suspicious of things such as...
1)Are you actually single
2)Are you interested
3)Is he just a 2nd or 3rd choice so you only act interested when you feel insecure about #1 working out.
4)What are your overall intentions
Remember guys have feelings too. The macho act some of these so-called badboys is just that "an act". Those guys often turnout to be the most insecure. Its a main reason most relationships do not last. As mentioned here several times, many guys who do have that intial line of bs that draws females in t/o to be nothing like they sold themselves as...meanwhile the guys that comeoff too nice, gooney, creepy, etc...often turnout to be the best lovers, most secure in the longterm.
1/11/2011
Ask guys out!!
Ask guys out!! by Honest Jon
Girls, girls, girls...
Why do you all want everything so perfect??? Why must I/Us guys make the first move? Guys can't read minds. If we could, we would be less shy. It OK to ask us out. I'm soooooo tired of being led on in some game. I like many girls, but I don't know which like me back. Y'all act like you don't care, yet we're supossed to ask you out. What!!! If you like a guy, let him know.
As a sophmore, you think that GF/BF act isn't a game. Prince charming and his horse aren't real. So say something, let us know. I try to ask a girl out, but she won't give me a chance.I know she has a crush on me, but I'm supossed to ask her out?!?! Either y'all start asking us out, or someone explain this to me, cause I am CONFUSED!!!
Girls, girls, girls...
Why do you all want everything so perfect??? Why must I/Us guys make the first move? Guys can't read minds. If we could, we would be less shy. It OK to ask us out. I'm soooooo tired of being led on in some game. I like many girls, but I don't know which like me back. Y'all act like you don't care, yet we're supossed to ask you out. What!!! If you like a guy, let him know.
As a sophmore, you think that GF/BF act isn't a game. Prince charming and his horse aren't real. So say something, let us know. I try to ask a girl out, but she won't give me a chance.I know she has a crush on me, but I'm supossed to ask her out?!?! Either y'all start asking us out, or someone explain this to me, cause I am CONFUSED!!!
Simple tip for girls from a guy
Simple tip for girls from a guy by annoymous
we may not like to show it but we like to know that we are wanted and needed as well , we like little suprises just as much as you infact were not alot different we like to be touched and told how much u care always be honest with each other and communication is the key to any good relationship make sure u talk about what makes u happy and any problems or fears we like to meet your firends wether there male or female , althought we dont like to hear how great or sweet your other male friend is
we may not like to show it but we like to know that we are wanted and needed as well , we like little suprises just as much as you infact were not alot different we like to be touched and told how much u care always be honest with each other and communication is the key to any good relationship make sure u talk about what makes u happy and any problems or fears we like to meet your firends wether there male or female , althought we dont like to hear how great or sweet your other male friend is
Where are all the nice guys
Where are all the nice guys? by Quiet bar guy
A common complaint - all men are bastards. Where are the nice ones? Well, have you looked around? I mean properly. Say, most guys you meet are guys who come up to talk to you in bars, then what about the good looking guy who's just hanging around with a couple of mates by the jukebox?
Could be one of the shy ones often mentioned here. So, he's not the sort of guy who'd try to come over and pick you up... but you like the look of him, don't you? Go on, you do. And he's NOT going around trying to pick up girls - could well mean he's not just after getting laid, you know.
You don't necessarily have to march over and talk to him if you're uncomfortable doing that (though there's nothing more affirming to a guy that a girl likes him than if you make the first move - you're almost guarenteed a call) - just make some sort of initial contact. Catch his eye and smile a couple of times. Hopefully, he'll get it
A common complaint - all men are bastards. Where are the nice ones? Well, have you looked around? I mean properly. Say, most guys you meet are guys who come up to talk to you in bars, then what about the good looking guy who's just hanging around with a couple of mates by the jukebox?
Could be one of the shy ones often mentioned here. So, he's not the sort of guy who'd try to come over and pick you up... but you like the look of him, don't you? Go on, you do. And he's NOT going around trying to pick up girls - could well mean he's not just after getting laid, you know.
You don't necessarily have to march over and talk to him if you're uncomfortable doing that (though there's nothing more affirming to a guy that a girl likes him than if you make the first move - you're almost guarenteed a call) - just make some sort of initial contact. Catch his eye and smile a couple of times. Hopefully, he'll get it
How to get the right guy
How to get the right guy. by Alexandre
So I guess you might be looking on how to get that guy you're after. Well lets start with the most important thing:
1. Be yourself, no matter what, be yourself, don't try to like something just because he likes it, or someone for that matter.
2. Ok so you might be wondering how you could get his attention, well a good way to start is by just talking to him, he doesn't have to know you love him, just talk. Try to get to really know him.
3. Most good guys will go for a beautiful nice girl, they'll normally try to find a girl with great outter and inner beauty. So maybe you don't have the best outter beauty, but try to talk to him more and more, he'll start paying more attention to you if he doesn't have another girl in mind. Just be really nice with him and smile alot, make jokes and laugh to his, but only if its funny, you probably don't want to be the only one laughing. If he's really smart, he won't care too much about your outter beauty, we don't really care about zits, just not too much, try some products for acne and a little make-up, not too much though. Also try different hair styles. I know 3 girls who had pretty long hair, they cut their hair arround to their shoulders, and all of them practicaly blew me away, so like I say, different hair styles will help, try not to have your hair too long, most guys don't like that, they like it when you can straighten your hair and still look good.
4. Compliment him in the things he does, if he says he loves sports, and plays some, try to find out what his favorite sport is and watch him play if you have the chance, most guys will be good at one sport, normaly the one they like best, so tell him he's good at it. You can also tell him he sucks at things, but make sure he gets that ur just trying to tease him. We like to get teased because we can tease back, its great for flirting.
5. Don't tell the guy you love him until you really know him well, relationships normaly end quickely or badly when things go too fast. Finaly, just be yourself and make sure he's really the one for you before going after him, and if he doesn't love you back or says he loves another girl when you told him you love him, just keep talking to him alot and wait and see.
Some guys minds are hard to change, but you can still convince them that you might be the one for him. But if he really doesn't love you, just let him go, there's no point in going out with someone who doesn't love you. A nice guy will always go after a beautiful girl, but beautiful girls aren't always the prettyests, so don't worry about your looks too much, just make a little effort to look pretty for him.
If you have any questions, well I've hooked up plenty of girls and would love to help you with your love life. So my e-mail is alexandre14_55@hotmail.com if you want to talk about a guy you like or how to tell him you like him. If you do wonder how to tell him, well just think. What have you got to lose by just telling him?? Good luck, hope my tips work.
Tag : www.datingtips
So I guess you might be looking on how to get that guy you're after. Well lets start with the most important thing:
1. Be yourself, no matter what, be yourself, don't try to like something just because he likes it, or someone for that matter.
2. Ok so you might be wondering how you could get his attention, well a good way to start is by just talking to him, he doesn't have to know you love him, just talk. Try to get to really know him.
3. Most good guys will go for a beautiful nice girl, they'll normally try to find a girl with great outter and inner beauty. So maybe you don't have the best outter beauty, but try to talk to him more and more, he'll start paying more attention to you if he doesn't have another girl in mind. Just be really nice with him and smile alot, make jokes and laugh to his, but only if its funny, you probably don't want to be the only one laughing. If he's really smart, he won't care too much about your outter beauty, we don't really care about zits, just not too much, try some products for acne and a little make-up, not too much though. Also try different hair styles. I know 3 girls who had pretty long hair, they cut their hair arround to their shoulders, and all of them practicaly blew me away, so like I say, different hair styles will help, try not to have your hair too long, most guys don't like that, they like it when you can straighten your hair and still look good.
4. Compliment him in the things he does, if he says he loves sports, and plays some, try to find out what his favorite sport is and watch him play if you have the chance, most guys will be good at one sport, normaly the one they like best, so tell him he's good at it. You can also tell him he sucks at things, but make sure he gets that ur just trying to tease him. We like to get teased because we can tease back, its great for flirting.
5. Don't tell the guy you love him until you really know him well, relationships normaly end quickely or badly when things go too fast. Finaly, just be yourself and make sure he's really the one for you before going after him, and if he doesn't love you back or says he loves another girl when you told him you love him, just keep talking to him alot and wait and see.
Some guys minds are hard to change, but you can still convince them that you might be the one for him. But if he really doesn't love you, just let him go, there's no point in going out with someone who doesn't love you. A nice guy will always go after a beautiful girl, but beautiful girls aren't always the prettyests, so don't worry about your looks too much, just make a little effort to look pretty for him.
If you have any questions, well I've hooked up plenty of girls and would love to help you with your love life. So my e-mail is alexandre14_55@hotmail.com if you want to talk about a guy you like or how to tell him you like him. If you do wonder how to tell him, well just think. What have you got to lose by just telling him?? Good luck, hope my tips work.
Tag : www.datingtips
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